- A semi-autobiographical offering that came about because of a huge can of baked beans that sat in my cupboard after my ex-wife had raided the house. I had the chorus and the basic verses written for a long time before I sent it to Kasey for a lot of sprucing up. There are elements of the song that are true but foe the most part it is a generalized statement about how many guys get shafted in the divorce process.