I have been watching the state of things and I have noticed that we are all missing the big picture. When you dance with a partner you have to remember not to step on their toes, that's a given. When you want to become excellent at your dance you must learn to do YOUR BEST and trust in your partner. This is what we have been missing. We generally are always concerned with what other people are doing and they don't concern themselves about themselves. This is not new infromation but we still don't listen. In my own life I have had many issues to overcome and one of the last great ones is the concern of what other people think of what I am doing. I have grown to the point of overstanding that people generally judge according to their own persoective. I am now mastering my style of dance and allowing those who style fits with mine to join in.