How many of us bite our tounges every day in order to be "NICE"? I wonder how effective that really is, would we all be better off if we could just let things be as they are? I have found that when we wear masks, we may please those around us, but no true respect is gained. I want to be remebered for what I stand for much more than being nice.True respect lies in this - even if I am labeled as "opinionated" otherwise known as a bitch..ha ha