Now heres a question that i would love someone to answer!? On a personal note i really love music and really love my wife. But it is so hard to evolve with both. to work at what you really do love and all throught one's life you struggle to get a balance. And Unfortunately we all(well most of us) have to work in this life to survive. which is also very time consuming. There is more i can say on this but i really would take pages ! if there is anyone to whom might know this answer please let us know Peace.