ALL the sidehoes were the MOTIVATION behind this song. Alot of women can't find a man of their own, so they settle for being the side piece just 2 stay they have some1. These chics are VERY lonely & insecure about themselves 2 lay down with a man just because they give them a few compliments from time 2 time. They will SLUT it out & can't be TRUSTED around your man or anyone else's for that matter. Wait on GOD, & he will give U exactly what U need in a man. Besides, he's neva gonna leave so STOP telling yourselves he will, cause he won't.