I am a professional dominatrix. I have been in the rave scene for 23 years, but have just gotten into the drum and bass scene about a year ago.

Pleasures of the Flesh prt. 4: There are many things that I thought would never appeal to Me that experimentation has proven are huge turn-ons for Me, and I suspect the same is true of most people. Not even "most people who are into BDSM"--most people. So yeah, when you start experimenting, you may find that there are things that turn you on that you never thought would turn you on. But then again, unless you are hopelessly shallow, as you go through life you'll probably discover new things that turn you on even if you don't get involved with BDSM. As a Dominatrix, the pleasure comes from constructing a scenario and acting it out. I can, at least within reason, determine the submissive's fate; I'm the scriptwriter, direct

Pleasures of the Flesh pt. 3: A Dominatrix is concerned above all else with the needs and desires of the submissive.
Now that's only the beginning, after that there's the use of more psychology, toys, techniques, etc. that take that erection and keep it right on the edge of orgasm for the full hour, or more depending on what is paid for, and how long you can hold it. I of course can usually tell, and will back off or use a technique to stop it right before it happens. See you're not allowed to orgasm until you ask for permission AND I grant it. It's all psychological, I know of course what you do and do not want to happen because it's been discussed ahead of time, and there's words so that if you thought you wanted som...

Pleasures of the Flesh prt. 2: It's the buildup that makes it so intense. Picture this: you come into the room, I'm standing there in a black low cut latex corset, that exposes My breast down to the nipple, a pair of black lace panties with a black net skirt over the top, black thigh high stockings, and knee high lace up 6 inch boots. So you can see pretty much everything except for what you really want to see! I have a riding crop in My hand, and I walk over to you, look you up and down, walk slowly around you, and when I'm behind you I lean up close to your ear, you can feel My breath against your neck, and I whisper in the most seductive voice you've ever heard,"So, have you been thinking about this moment a long tim

Forbidden Pleasures of the Flesh: The image of BDSM that is portrayed in many materials has about as much to do with BDSM as the child's tale "Jack and the Magic Beanstalk" has to do with agriculture. These materials show little more than women being used in various unoriginal ways for men's enjoyment, usually by force. The reality is that there are actually more male submissives than female submissives; and that BDSM is a mutual activity that is driven more by the needs of the submissive than by the needs of the dominant. Most people think it's sick, or the people wanting it are sick. The fantasies, sexual urges, or behaviors must cause clinically significant distress or impairment in social, occupational, or other importan

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