Part 6 i told you it was long... Great article!: Psychologist Arthur Aron of the State University of New York at Stony Brook says people who meet during a crisis an emergency landing of their airplane, say- may be much more inclined to believe they’ve found the person meant for them. “It’s not that they we fall in love with such people because they’re immensely attractive,” he says. “It’s because they seem immensely attractive because we have fallen in love with them.” If that sounds a lot like what happens when people meet and date under regular influence of drugs or alcohol, only to sober up later and wonder what in the world they were thi...