I Need Advice: You know, it's been so long since any friends have requested my best advice be posted as a blog...that I thought I'd ask you guys for advice. I had someone say to me online once, "o yes, i've hit my spouce across the face before." My response was, "you can email me at findanotherfrend@scary.com!" Take for instance the other day I was talking to someone who asked me if I would perfer them to be a "complete ass" when talking to me. Most of you know me well enough to know what my response to that was. For those of you that don't, it was "yes". Truthfully, if you have the capability to treat...